A hairbrush is, after the bare hand, probably the most suitable implement for an OTK spanking.
This is because the position of the spankee makes is fairly impossible to use a long implement. A sturdy hairbrush is just the correct length and capable of delivering a stinging spanking that a naughty bottom is not likely to forget.
Please note that I am referring to consensual, adult spanking.
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All day long you look forward with a dreaded fascination to tonight. You have difficulty breathing … more so to get up from behind your desk and walk around in pain sight of your colleagues.
Your arousal is painfully visible through the much-too-flimsy fabric of you suit pants. You have been in this state since she had sent you that text soon after you had arrived at work.
I FOUND YOUR MAGAZINES. BE HOME AT 6. DON’T YOU DARE BE LATE. AND EXPECT IT TO BE SEVERE. Continue reading Why do I get aroused when I receive a spanking?
You would be surprised by how many women harbors spanking fantasies and would be very open to the idea of being playfully spanked.
I was certainly amazed at how many Tinder conversations that I’ve had turned in this direction. Bearing in mind that these were lengthy text conversations.
And therein lies the key. Continue reading Is it acceptable to playfully very slightly spank a girl as a part of flirting?
In the BDSM scene the whip is the last … and very last (I mean it) implement that you should consider for role playing.
The reasons are two-fold:
- A whip has the potential to incur more harm than almost any other instrument.
- A whip is not all that easy to control.
Continue reading What does it feel like to be lashed?
In my humble opinion no spanking should be without an OTK element. I am, of course, referring to consensual spanking between adults as part of sexual role play. If you are asking about punishing a child then you should really skip this answer altogether.
All spankings should start OTK because:
- It creates a feeling of intimacy between the domme and sub.
- It allows the domme to warm up the sub’s bottom properly with a bare hand before other implements are utilized.
- The sub can get much stimulation where it is needed from writhing around on the domme’s lap.
Continue reading What is OTK spanking?
BDSM is certainly not for everybody but the simple fact is that someone who has an affinity for this kind of lifestyle will never be truly be satisfied and fulfilled in a vanilla relationship.
Now not everybody who enjoys aspects of this lifestyle walks around all day long in leathers and latex and can only enjoy sex and intimacy by beating someone up or getting beaten up.
And very few people who seriously enjoy BDSM activities have anything in common with Christian Grey & 50 Shades. These books in my mind has been written by an author who was seeking to exploit a market for financial gain while having little but academic interest in the subject.
So lets set the record straight – there a more than one shade of BDSM. Continue reading Why do people enjoy BDSM?
Believe it or not, you can actually find partners using Tinder.
If you are a woman, plainly state in your bio that you are looking for a spanking partner.
If you are a man, the upfront approach might not work as well. I believe many potential partners will not swipe your profile because you might be seen as being too much of a threat.
No, you have to be more subtle and work a little harder. Continue reading What is the best way to find a spanking partner near me?
Oh this is very easy but I am having serious doubts whether I should answer this question. It has the potential to hurt countless people. With great power comes great responsibility, you know?
Oh well …
All people are hurt when their beloved withholds the thing that they are yearning for.
So you want to hurt your beloved who really likes to spend time across your knee? Continue reading How would you hurt someone who enjoys pain?
Yes there are but they are in my experience, not all that plentiful. Even in this day and age of feminism there seems to be a stigma to woman taking the dominant role.
In the minds of many women.
Many will be intrigued by it but during conversation they will admit that you don’t feel dominant enough to take on the role of Dom. They prefer to be the Sub.
Very interesting to me, indeed. Continue reading Do women like spanking men?
Our butts are closely situated to our pleasurable bits.
You know, the bits that love to get stimulated? The bits that make us experience orgasms when stimulated enough.
Now when a butt is spanked correctly by a partner, someone who truly understand what they are doing, a couple of things happen: Continue reading Why do some love to have their butt touched, grabbed and spanked by their loved ones (partner)?